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Hi guys out there! Well, stories have been my first love because they make life. We all have stories to talk about, stories untold, stories locked in our hearts. I have been writing stories ever since they influenced me. Here I am with three fiction novels in my kitty. If you have a story you want to talk about, you can always write to me. Here you'll find my blog posts too which are sometimes funny and stupid because I choose to write what prevails within me. About me on a personal note: I love to write at any time. Some day, I want to be the person who creates a tiny difference in the book world. Apart from that, I do have commom interests just like anybody else with an extra tint of passion for books. You can always write to me here chitalmehta1987@gmail.com or check my website here - www.chitalmehta.info

Monday, March 8, 2010

of text messages n smileys....

When I entered the teenage phase of text messaging, almost all of my messages ended with a “take care, miss you dear” even when I didn’t mean it. My hands would automatically type it as of it were a form of saying goodbye. Even people texting me back used it often that I really didn’t care whether they meant it or not.

But lately there have been moments when I really want the other person to know that deep down I care for that person, that I really worry for the, that I want that person to be fine in whatever situation, that when I say ‘take care’, it’s like asking that person to safeguard themselves so that I can stay worry free. Because of the distance and time constraints these days, it’s impossible to meet your friends, so it’s obvious that we all tend to rely on the most attached-to-human gadget, the mobile.
You can’t see the person but we have adapted ourselves to express our emotions through calls and messages and smileys which can talk a million things about how you feel. It’s almost magical how much a smiley can express what you want to convey.
It was only when I wanted to express my deep felt feelings to the person sitting miles across from me, did I understand that text messages are not just text messages. They are the stuff that are formed by your emotions which are transferred into text to be told to another. Messages tell a million things about what you feel and think.

Well, I have made it a point not to take text messages for grant cos when I say ‘take care’, I really mean it; I really want you to take care of yourself for me. I have changed my perspective of thinking that smileys and messages are for time pass cos they are the stuff that tells the other person that I am thinking of them right now.

Cheers to be a part of the text messages and smiley cosmos….

10 comments:

Prasanth said...

:) .. im also glad to be part of it :D

Prasanth said...

like to add bit more to above reply..

smiles are like spices which add flavour and color to the text messages.. they will help the sender to express feelings in better way...

nice peice of work :)

chital_phenomenal said...

@prasanth

thanks Prasanth..:)

Anonymous said...

Well... that's very interessting but to be honest i have a hard time determining it... wonder what others have to say..

Agent V.V said...

Emoticons sure do add a lot of meaning to a simple msg.... but, in a way isnt it being overused(read misused) in most cases?? !!!

chital_phenomenal said...

@Agent v v
well, sure it does.. may be its cos u cant be in person to express ur feelings and so sometimes the other person cant understand.. and yes it is misused also in some cases

Aswin Kini said...

Hi Chittal, I cam to your blog via the Writer's forum in Orkut. Nice blog. Keep writing!

AJai said...

Not bad. Looks like the Lady might be getting a little romantic about life. Not a bad trait at all to have in a writer. Or a texter for that matter. ;)

chital_phenomenal said...

@ashwin
thanks... i dropped by urs too..

@ajai
well, i love to be romantic with life... it just gets more magical.

HaRy!! said...

yu just said the thought of sooo many.... cyu around.. nala blog yu have :)